Friday, September 23, 2005
Woot. My 3 white bar. Feels kinda indifferent wearing it anyway, except that things will get a hell lot xiong in the pro term. The 23 click was ok loh, except that there's one part when I got hyped up and started singing all the cartoon songs that I could remember and yea, that part of the road was one of the more easier journeys. Heh. Was kinda disappointed that we didn't have the parade on Elephant Hill and watch the beautiful sunrise (as said by many others) coz of the adminstration cock-up as ADA has already booked the hill for an exercise. So, could say that the trip back was more tirring due to the disappointment and the fatigue setting in. Anyway, got the new rank and that's it. Btw, I'm doing my last extra now (on my block leave. T_T)! Yea, free man from tml onwards. HAha.
Humm...end of service term and going into pro term. Heard that next week we'll be having 8 click fast march (followed up by 12 and 16 click and so on), the outfields like ex wolf and dumping, juz to prepare us for the overseas training in a month's plus or so. Life in army...humm...I've got a better physical condition now, can run better, jump further and so on. =P I guess everyone does. I mean it's like the army, like OCS, if the physical fittness is not there then I should be saying goodbye? Haha. Apart from that, I guess the army has made me appreciate lotsa things around me more, like my family, my freedom, my bed and so on. No matter how simple the dish my mum cooked, I would always find it tasting better than the cookhouse food. Hah. And it's been quite a while I cooked something too. =D MY bed also seems to be more comfortable, more warm and such. Everything in the civilian life seems to be better but somehow, I seems to be contented the simple life that army is giving me now. (apart from all the 'tough trainings') Find myself really easy to satisified. DOn't really have all those big ambitions and dreams like others. A simple little thing can keep me occupied for long and I always try to find every little thing in life to feel happy and laugh about.
Perhaps this goes on to the old topic again. Yea Nic, a tot to share with u eh? HAha. I guess for me, I'm not that competition-driven type to go to the extend that I would really do anything to win unless it's really something that I'm passionate about. (like bball but I still try to relac-jack a bit. Haha.) I rather enjoy the process of doing the thing and it doesn't matter the results (although winning can bring the joy x2) but take bball for example, it's the beautiful teamwork and the excellent plays that mesmerise me. For me, I juz do what my own values, principles tell me to do and that's it. I'm not like those selfless or saint type coz I know I'm not, I'll still slack at every possible chance. =P Perhaps sometimes I do things coz I know that if I don't, no one else will and everyone will die together. Haha. Might as well do it right?
Linking back to love. Perhaps everyday like take all the shit also need some outlet to neutralise all the f-up feelings inside what. Maybe the last relationship wasn't as fulfilling as such. I don't know, I juz don't feel like someone of any importance to her. It juz seems that whatever I do weighs nothing and it juz gets tirring to go on and on. When she's upset I have to take all the cold words and behaviours and when I'm unhappy, I can't show it coz if I do, she juz makes me feel that it's wrong to do so. I guess all I as for is to treat me like a friend. I mean if I have a girlfriend as close to me as my buddies like boon, jun, seng or even dets, I guess I'll be extremely contented. It's really hard to find someone who can understands me and like know what's going on juz by observing my actions alone. HA, that brings to another point for my peer appraisal. Someone wrote that I'm too easily influenced by my own emotions. I guess so. I think that emotions have always been that weakness of mine. Juz like fall in love too easily, get upset too easily because I care too much about what people around me thinks. TRy to fit to their needs at times and not let them be unhappy results in juz me, myself getting tired and hurt. Yup. Still learning to let go of these thoughts and be a more emotionless me. Heh. Oh yea, back to nic's point. Well, I think that for you, it's up to you to decide how much you want that friendship and how much chance you think you'll succeed. But actually, before all these analysis, as your heart first. If you think that you should do it, then juz go for it. Don't wait and drag and waste time coz at the end of the day when you see that she's with someone else, you'll be the one regretting not making the move, not her. Well, don't think so much like me loh. Think more = more hum. Be like seng loh, gan ai gan hen. Hehe. Well, all I can say is all the best to you loh, I ain't no love expert to give you excellent tips to boost your chances of succeeding but yea, listen to your heart unless it fails you many times like mine. =P
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