HongZ's soup for the troubled soul

Lol. Juz feeling a bit 感触良多 when I saw one of my buddy troubled in love. Never expect him to listen to what I have to say coz everyone around me will always comment that I make the lousiest advice especially from one who seems to always hit the wrong targets.

Love = trouble is juz so darn right, from a bystander's POV. Coz the 当事人 would 心甘情愿 do through all the trouble to make the person he likes feel 幸福. Haha. Used to do all those things too. Although it's always said that as long as you love someone, you would juz want her to be happy and that's all, you'll be happy too. Well..that's BULLSHIT. Probably you might be 10% glad that she's doing well but 90% of the time you'll feel so darn miserable. Realistic love works both ways. Give and take. Well...still up to the person who jumped onto the boat (into hell...or not =x) to decide. Juz find out what you really one and chiong ALL OUT!!! Don't leave any retreat routes for regrets later.

Guess that's no such thing as one true love forever. Faithful is for the 天真 ones who'll be eaten by the harsh world. Now, choosing a partner is like choosing clothes. You try them one for a while before deciding if they're the ones that suit you. Sometimes you can have a few different clothes at the same time to find which one suit you best. Perhaps the one that suits you most, let say have 80% of what you're looking for, is discarded coz you took that 80% for granted and tot that the other clothes that only offer the other 20% fits better. Kinda sux rite? But that's life.

Maybe I'm juz lazy to fall in love. Perhaps at first sight I might like that girl but after give a little try and see no responses (or positive feedbacks) I juz laze away. Coz my past experience told me it's not the amount of effort you put in as the female species think with their heart and not their brain. (juz like men think with their little head and not their big head...lol//) So might as well not get myself into so much trouble and feel stupid of putting in so much effort and resulting into nothing. Wait for some ZB to drop me some hints ba, or better still, jio me. HAhahaha. Like it's gonna happen.